Relationship Complication Flu

P|ayer |n Re|ationship, not pc games... LOL
So, what're the criteria must have in a P|ayer?
Let's see.....

Appearance included facial features, body shape, hairstyle
Personality somehow charming, funny, out-going
Intelligence in act if you know everything
Wealth? not a must somehow......

How do a P|ayer pick up a victim?
What do P|ayer gets in return?
Can everybody become a P|ayer?
Why makes someone become a P|ayer?

Many sees me as a P]aygirl before. I can't deny but admit it. How am I going to explain that I was serious and appreciated each and everyone I had yet I don't seem to be settled down in any relationship til now?
Nobody would believe when I say I don't cheat, I don't lie in a relationship. It's up to you to believe or not. I'm asking for fully truthful man to accompany me to walk the journey in the rest of my life.
Is it wrong to fall in love with someone who you shouldn't?

How do we judge who is the third party in a relationship?
One of my friend says, third party is someone intercept into a relationship whereby the couple are still in love.
Another friend thinks, third party exists when a couple in a relationship doesn't love each other anymore.
Another thinks, one of the main act in the initial couple needs a third party to make him/her feels a even better person.
Even though there're plenty of choices and opportunities laying around but why do people would involve themselves into these kinda heart ache complications?

Perhaps, human tend to like torturing their own mind? lolz

I think, we tend to choose what we Want rather than what we Need in life.
It's not rational, yet we always feel better deep in our heart even though we are being disappointed and discouraged at times. Whatever it is, do not regret for which ever choice you made.

Why Lie?

No doubt, Everyone wants to be perfect. No blame.
but, perfections come after hard effort.
Lying, is to cover a mistake.
Worse, Lying itself is a mistake.

Why human likes to create a story to peace another?
Isn't it hurts more when another find out the truth?
If another finds unhappy with your initial truth,
At least you've done best not to do a mistake.

Lying leaves side effects.
Confidence, Faith, Trust, will all vanish when knowing a lie.
Why can't we be real?
Isn't it harder to create a fairy tale or inexistance stories rather than say the truth?

All relationships, build with trust.
Lie, will only ruin the trust.
Ruining a trust equals to disappointment.
How can a relationship sustain in suspicious?

No one is perfect.
But lying is a dead sentence.
Be good, be real.
Perfectionists will only exist in the virtual world.

xenophobia vs schizophrenia: 26 worst traits of an eligible bachelor...

xenophobia vs schizophrenia: 26 worst traits of an eligible bachelor...

Sometimes it’s nothing wrong to be the more popular person among your peers but being the ‘best’ could bring the worst interpretation you could ever imagine from an unlikely audience or someone you desire. Whether it's a "HE" or "She" gets the same responds at times.

1. He’s good looking; he is a flirt.
2. He’s compassionate; he’s an unlikely leader.
3. He’s ambitious; he’s not practical.
4. He’s gentle; he’s not manly.
5. He’s smart; he’s hard to understand.
6. He’s considerate; he thinks too much.
7. He’s a visionary; he’s too complicated.
8. He’s sensitive; he’s over emotional.
9. He’s reputation conscious; he’s over image conscious.
10. He’s confident; he’s arrogant.
11. He’s decisive; he’s heartless.
12. He’s funny; he’s too playful.
13. He’s individualistic; he’s selfish.
14. He’s matured; he’s boring.
15. He’s neat; he’s fussy.
16. He’s stylish; he’s not dependable.
17. He’s charming; he’s not trustworthy.
18. He’s humorous; he’s never serious.
19. He’s determined; he’s inflexible.
20. He’s independent; he’s an outcast.
21. He’s popular; he’s untamable.
22. He’s flexible; he’s weak.
23. He’s straightforward; he's blunt.
24. He’s cultured; he’s boring.
25. He's shy; he's a coward.
26. He has principle; he’s too stubborn.

Sometimes the right audience do make a lot of difference ;)

A true story, Different in Men & Women

A couple, live in a house.

One day, husband came back home from work, after taking a shower and passed by kitchen, over heard his wife sobbing quietly in the kitchen. He thought:

"My wife must have meet some difficulties. I better leave her alone to sort out her problem. She should not want to be disturbed." He walk away to the living hall and watch TV, pretend that he doesn't know bout it.

After 2 hours, he did not see his wife come out from kitchen. He went to check out his wife again but he heard her crying even sadder this time. He thought:

"She must be sad that I disturbed her by turning on the TV as she can't solve her problem quietly. I should give her some quiet privacy to think." He's then go back to the room and fell to sleep after some moment.

During the next day morning wake up, he wanted to drink water. As he approached to the kitchen, he heard his wife crying more dramatically! He thought:

"Darn! I shouldn't have stay in the house as my existence disturb her privacy to solve her problem. She can't fully utilize the space in the house and it must be hard for her to hide in the kitchen to think!" He's then get ready to work quickly.

He was afraid that his wife might not know that he went out. He close the main door hard so that his wife would know that he went out. Too, he rev his car hard to create some exhaust noise to ensure to his wife that he's already left the house.

Eventually, his wife came out from kitchen. She committed suicide in the hall. Many thinks that she was over depressed as she doesn't get any care and respond from her husband even though he should have heard her crying.

Husband was so sad about it but that's nothing can do anymore. The story was told by the husband. He got all kinds of blame from family members and friends, blaming him for not bother to ask his wife, "What's wrong?"

He was regret even though he didn't think that he did wrong. Till now, he doesn't know what's wrong going with his wife, and it couldn't be important anymore as his wife is dead.

Men are more self centered person. Always think that problem can be solved by themselves without bother anyone and prefer not to have anyone to bother them. Men wouldn't want to speak of what's problem they're facing, especially to their love one. The harder you push them to tell, the harsher responds you got.
At times, men will share their problem if they think it's appropriate, which will not arise any discomfort to the person he tells.
Men will seek for opinions when they need one.

While Women unlikely want to tell their problems, even though they can't solve it. They usually give hints by showing their emo face, shedding tears out of a sudden... They want the man ask, "What's wrong, my dear?" They want to feel more care and alert from their love one. Oppositely, women will only blah out all the small small matters which easily to be solved.

At my opinion, communication is important in a relationship. Two are meant to be One. Sharing is essential to keep the relationship going, regardless ups, or downs. Caring will come in place only after knowing what's happening.

Show some love, to your loves one, to anyone, before it's too late~

UPDATES!

Hey all, it's been 5 months without any update from me in this blog.
There's been many happens to me within this 5 months. Ups and Downs. Life is definitely look like a roller coaster :p

Since July, I'm fully committed myself in paintball, training on every Sunday in MAPAAC (Malaysian Paintball Academy) located Astaka field, PJ. There've been 3 times paintball tournament been participated in Division 4 (Young Gun) whereby I formed my own team Wolfpack since October to play in the finale round of MY-NPL (Malaysian National Paintball League) in November and my team has been proudly won the 1st runner-up just after few times training!

I'm happy that I met someone who's lovable to take care of me and our relationship is officially blosom since August :) I knew him since year 2006. We got to know each other from the automotive industry. We both love cars, especially rotary, we both love outdoor and extreme games, he's playing in Division 1 (Amateur) team in MY-NPL. He's my current team manager and his team Wolverinez is my team coach! haha!

I've then moved to USJ 1 with my love. Beautiful place. cooling. Despite the construction opposite my condo has not finished which create noice in the day time :(

I'm currently helping out the organization MY-NPL for their PR works. I know it'll be lotsa fun working with these people as they're friendly and kind people. This organization deserves all kind of support as they;ve been devoted and passion about paintball throughout so many years, yet they don't want to give up even though they went through alot of hard times!

Cut all short, I'm still ALIVE and being good. Hopefully, I'm able to keep up with writing you guys some good post in the near future as the internet LAN connection at my condo here is kinda fuck up most of the time LOL

Till then, take care all, hugs!

Free Will

Hey hey hey~ I'm fully tied up with my heavy work load schedule recent week, as well busy to keep reload myself with lotsa of fun as usual~
Work Hard, Play Harder as me and frens alwiz do :)

Recently, I've read a very interesting book. Its titled "God's Debris" about "Thought Experiment" :) I've repeated reading it 3 times...
Anyone who loves to play around with your thoughts will definitely love this book :) Let me know if u wish to have a copy for reading since it's in an acrobat file :)

I'm gonna share some thoughts about each and every topic whereby it somehow reflects in our life. Let's see how much we understand about human thoughts and more importantly, improve ourself by understand it!

Do you think human have Free Will?

Do you think we are able to control our Free Will?

When we choose to do something according to our Free Will, why is there "Regret" and "Blame"?
Aren't we are the one who make the decision on the path?
When the results didn't turn out as what we expected and we blame our "Fate" and "Destiny"? We regret for making that choice?

Do you still agree we human-being have Free Will?

“An imaginary coin with consciousness would believe that things don’t just ‘happen’ without causes. If nothing external controlled the results of the flips, a penny would assume that the control came from its own will"

We always believe what's believable.
We choose, which is easier to be understand and convince ourself.

"We believe in the scientific principle that any specific cause, no matter how complex, must have a specific effect. Therefore, we believe two realities that cannot both be true. If one is
true, the other must be false."

If the result is not what we expect, then our decision is wrong.
If our decision has been made right, then the result should be right?!!

Our human being always forget about the in-between possibility.
Or, we did not want to accept the possibility of in-between happen.

"Simplicity is not proof of truth. But since we can never understand true reality, if two models both explain the same facts, it is more rational to use the simpler one. It is a matter of convenience."

That's why many of us couldn't grow up because we are stucked in the middle of this mist. We never learn our "mistake" and simply believe it's being destined or fated to the unwanted results.
I believe, if we can further analyze a failure choice been made, there'll be more details to be noted in the future decision making moments!

As we always encourage another, "Decision is in Your Hand".
Your Free Will makes you action.
Actually, I believe everyone has Free Will, whether it outcomes expected or unexpected results, it depends on how you to judge it, how you manage it.

Live your life to the Fullness,
Do what you Want, Get what you Need,
You made your choice,
You deserve the consequences.

Believe, everyone has Free Will.
Respect one and another Free Will.
Free Will is Willingness alone.